I was wallowing pretty heavily in self pity this morning. My right eye is a mess, my water heater exploded last night and flooded our basement, and I was all “oh, life sucks, I’m so miserable, boo-hoo.”

And then a dear writing friend of mine (I don’t think she reads this blog, but she’s pretty much one of the most awesome critique buddies I’ve ever had), turned it back on me. On Monday I had mused aloud about what kind of conflict occured in real life that I could use in my stories. For some reason, when she replied with “Well, your hot water heater could blow up, flooding your basement…”

It just made me grin. So that’s my advice for the day. The next time life sucks and you have absolutely no desire to stop wallowing, put one of your characters through the same thing. Not to torture them, but because then you can have the situation turn out exactly like you want…at least on paper. It’s cathardic, trust me.

Do you ever use real life events in your fiction?