My A-Z theme for the month of April is romance and the modern, technology-driven cubicle dweller (like me). When we were little, teasing someone to show interest meant things like kicking their chair, or pulling their hair, or anything that attracted their attention but didn’t let on how much we liked them.
But teasing as adults works differently. I hope. If you’re all-growed-up age, you probably can’t get that guy/girl’s attention by kicking their chair. Though the hair pulling…that’s got possibilities.
*Ahem* For me, teasing lies somewhere between flirting and seduction. It’s a taste of what’s to come, a kiss, a whisper, a brush of warm breath on the skin, that may or may not lead further. It heightens the anticipation, it stretches out the moment. That feather-light touch followed by pulling back, a wink, and a look that promises more, but not until later, can send one’s pulse racing to glorious places.
But I know it’s not for everyone. What about you? Teasing, or get straight to the point?
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I think it depends on the type of teasing because there is a slight difference between teasing and making fun of and some people can handle more than others. My bf teases me a little, like he might joke that I’m no fun but I can tell he’s teasing. But knowing where to draw the line is important in a relationship with a teaser, especially since some can’t handle much teasing. But that is mostly verbal “teasing” then there are others that are more fun. 😉
I love good witty banter in a novel, when characters tease and pick at each other. Especially if it’s done sharply and not heavy-handed. Susan Elizabeth Phillips is wonderful at this in her romance books. And Jennifer Crusie.